2009/12/29

Urban Abstract

Urban Abstract from Musuta on Vimeo.

Existentialism

我今天真的是太喜悅並且興奮。

由於我買的卡夫卡《變型記》 及 卡謬《異鄉人》都拿到了
於是我非常興奮而且迫不及待~
在我稍微看了一下簡介和序之後
腦中浮現出"存在主義"這個字眼
對,這詞我看過很多次,尤其在我買的書裡
但我從沒認真去查閱它的意思
於是我今天就搜尋了
結果我發現....
我的想法觀念幾乎完全符合!!!
所以我以前認為我是功利主義,理性主義一堆有的沒的...都只是一小角
存在主義中第一個解釋就把我打的死死的!!

存在主義(Existentialism),又稱為生存主義,是一個哲學的非理性主義思潮,以強調個人、獨立自主和主觀經驗。

在我搜尋其他相關文章之後
轟!!!!一聲
就是這樣了!!



這篇文章關於存在主義~淺顯易懂
http://arts.cuhk.edu.hk/~hkshp/humanities/ph86-13.txt



其實每個人選擇是自由的,但對於選擇後的結果,每個人有無法逃避的責任,人在選擇的過程中,面對的最大問題就是他人的選擇,因為每個人都有選擇的自由,但每個人的自由就可能影響他人的自由,所以稱「他人是地獄」。相信自我的選擇是存在主義學家最重要的中心。

PRAGUE

馬家輝於 卡夫卡《變形記》代序中最後一段寫著:
米蘭昆德拉走在布拉格的路上,有何感想?他在這裡花好幾年學習光陰,寫作之源亦啟始於此,但這不是昆德拉的布拉格,至少尚未是吧。等著吧,你才七十七歲,早呢。到你死後七十七年,這才將是昆德拉之城。一定是。

10個小孩轉大人的神諭

10個小孩轉大人的神諭:
眼神的改變--眼睛是通向靈魂的大門,年輕的眼神是無憂的,滄桑的眼神是衰老的,當你經歷了生命的磨練,眼神透露出堅毅,連服務生都會敬畏你三分,而站在人生的路口,茫然不知所措,所有的人都會從你的眼神讀出不確定感。是你的心決定你的能力,我們總在生日前後看見自己眼中的疑惑,又長了一歲,能力也跟著成長了嗎?

想要離家。或是成家--家,是那麼階段性的象徵,曾經在原生家庭中被撫養,然後想要獨立,自己靠自己,漸漸的,希望這個自己建立的家庭能夠更完整,成為養育下一代的地方。我們是人類,就這樣一步步執行傳承的天命,這不僅是成長,更是大自然的力量,那些想要逆天而行的人,不管自私的父母或懶惰的孩子,都不會快樂。

工作遇到瓶頸--曾經得心應手的工作開始變得無聊嗎?曾經事不關己的會議變成肩頭上責任?曾經聽命行事的簡單日子變成了監督、協調、斡旋、補位、應變...?你越來越少聽見老闆稱讚你的才華了?你的工作總是變成在解決問題?你懷疑自己的能力?你總是感受到壓力?太好了!你在往上爬,繼續努力!

群聚活動減少--我(IVEE)所認識的大老闆總是自己一個人吃午飯,那是他們休息的時間,你真要跟他吃個飯喝個咖啡,好像也沒辦法跟他聊上幾句,他想的都是工作,都是事業。不是唱高調,革命事業需要一群人完成。但是,領袖永遠是孤單的,他需要更多時間好好思考。思考過後,才知道下一步怎麼帶領大家向前走。

想多於說--這不是指你在開會時候發呆神遊,胡思亂想,而是你不再像以前一樣,還沒想清楚話就衝出嘴邊了。當別人問你問題,你開始會想一想才選擇如何回答的時候,你真的長大了。

做多於想--同樣的,想法如果沒有被實行,就像巫啟賢唱的:很想給你寫封信,只是想想而已。信用想的,誰會收到看到。把思想化為實際行動,才是能力,也只有能力才值得贏得尊敬。

叫別人做多於自己做--這樣說起來好像養尊處優的貴公子或大小姐都很擅長叫別人做事,難道這是能力嗎?沒錯,看他叫的動誰。叫得動佣人去擦地不是自己的本事,是階級的特權,不過,能夠掌握階級上的權力,當然也是一種能力。當然,最厲害的還是要帶人更能夠帶心。一個事必躬親的老闆,畢竟還是有些小問題的。

少激動--這表示你的裡性已經開始凌駕情緒了,萬事都有邏輯,邏輯想的通,自然就不必動用到情緒鎮壓、逼人就範。工作,感情都是如此。只有小孩才會哭要要糖吃,大人就會自己賺錢去買。

主動溝通--愛的反面不是恨,是冷漠;合作的反面不是吵架,是冷漠。選擇以漠不關心,孤立自己來應對環境給你的難題,只會原地踏步甚至倒退。成熟的態度就是主動,成熟的做法就是溝通,給自己表達的機會,也給對方說明的機會,沒有機會,何來轉機呢?

察覺他人動機--我不是在教你壞,人漸漸長大,人生經驗會讓你識人更清,那是一個讓你不被利用的保護。當然,發現醜陋的動機總是讓人失望的,等你有一天能夠包容一切,選擇不說出來的時候,你就臻入化境了。


from IVEE

here with me

2009/12/26

Christmas








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tear

我讓自己落淚,為了證實我的悲傷並不是幻覺:眼淚是符號跡象而不是表情

BY ROLAND BARTHES

三不猿

《3隻猴子》片名語出日本著名的「三不猿」,即三隻分別捂住眼睛、耳朵和嘴巴的猴子,意喻不看、不聽與不說。導演錫蘭以「3隻猴子」為片名,譬喻了電影中這個三人小家庭,總是不聽、不看、不說地逃避現實,不願面對真相地故意忽略掉他們不想在乎的事,僅汲汲於眼前的欲望!

遷就

其實我只是想跟你多接近,所以才會如此的遷就你。



我不在乎流言蜚語 我只在乎 我在乎的人也同等的在乎我。

2009/12/20

show

「你是要用自由的愛情來反對資產階級的婚姻,還是要用一夫一妻制來反對資產階級混亂的男女關係?」 《生活在他方》

true

I wanna live life and always be true. I wanna live life and be good to you.

old

她想遠離老死,並非害怕那些年老所留下的痕跡,應該說是她害怕年老的過程,以及那些未知,於是她選擇慢性的殘害自身,希望她能在她想離開時離開。

lie

he is a liar but she keep the smile.he knows the smile...and she will keep the lie.

poor

窮人家的生活就是永無止盡的忍耐各種欲望,那一絲絲歡樂的氣氛都會把你打回原形,然後苟延殘喘的繼續屈辱的過日子。我在忍耐。

Bang Gang Something Wrong



I can feel what is wrong
I can do what you want
I can feel what is wrong
I can do what you want
I can feel what is wrong
Can you feel what is wrong
Can you do what you want
Can you feel what is wrong
Can you do what you want
I can feel what is wrong
Above all the clouds
Above all the clouds
Above all the clouds
I can't cry anymore
Can you heal what went wrong
I can't cry anymore
Can you heal what went wrong
I can't cry anymore
Help me to feel my soul
Help me to end it all (falling down)
Help me to feel my soul
Help me to end it all
Help me to end it all
Above all the clouds
Above all the clouds
Above all the clouds

2009/12/18

Ghosts from the Past



You fall like an angel to me
And you fell and broke your wings
It was never meant to last
You were just a ghost from the past

I thought you really could be real
That my heart was ready to bleed
When I walked through pain and fear
You would totally disappear

You know that I love you, you know what I need
You know that I find you so tender so sweet
We walked through the darkness, we walked in the sun
We shared all our sorrows, we shared all our love
You said that you love me you said that you cared
So how could I know I had something to fear
I don't know where you are I know that you're hurt
I should have been able to sense your alert


You came like a stranger to me
And you said you were for real
Now I do know where this will end
I was cold and I needed a friend
I turned on the light so you could see
I was stuck in some other dream
Still my eyes were crystal clear
You came closer and shattered my tears


How could you say you want me to go
When my diamond was starting to glow
When you knew that I wanted you so
You left me alone

2009/12/16

the ballade of lady and bird


Bird :Lady?

Lady :Yes Bird?

Bird :It's closed

Lady :I know

Lady :Bird...
I cannot see a thing

Bird :It's all in your mind

Lady :I'm worried

Bird :No one will come to see us

Lady :Maybe they come but we just don't see them
What do you see?

Bird :I see what's outside

Lady :And what exactly is outside?

Bird :It's grown-ups

Lady :Well maybe if we scream they can hear us

Bird :Yeah, maybe we should try to scream

Lady :Ok, Bird

Lady & Bird :
Heeeelp, Heeeelp
Can you hear us now ?
Hello !
Help !
Hello it's me
Hey
Can you see
Can you see me
I'm here
Nana come and take us
Hello
Are you there
Hello

Lady :I don't think they can hear us

Bird :I can hear you lady

Bird :You want to come with me maybe?

Lady :Will you be nice to me Bird

Lady :You're always nice to me because you're my friend

Bird :I'll try, but sometimes I make mistakes

Lady :Nana says that we all make mistakes

Bird :Maybe we should scream more

Lady :Yes, Bird let's scream more

Lady & Bird :
Help ! Help us ! Come on ! Help
Hello !
Help
Hello !
We're lost

Lady :I think they cannot see us

Bird :Nobody likes us

Lady :But they all seem so big

Bird :Maybe we should just jump

Lady :What if we fall from the bridge and then nobody can catch us

Bird :I don't know let's just see what happens

Lady :Okay

Bird :Come with me

Lady :Shall we do it together

Bird :Yeah

Lady & Bird :
1 2 3....Aaaaaaah

Bird :Lady?

Lady :Yes Bird

Bird :It's closed

Lady :I know

Lady :Bird...I cannot see a thing

Bird :It's all in your mind

2009/12/13

忘了

很多事情就算你記得 ,也要說忘了。不是假裝忘記,而是你"認為"你已經忘記了,所以你怎麼樣都不會再想起來。